2021.10.25 00:32 d0-- WEEK 7 TOP PLAYS DUE THURSDAY @ MIDNIGHT
2021.10.25 00:32 EpicNinja7 Two types of ARAM players
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2021.10.25 00:32 memelord_151 rip mastodonsaurus
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2021.10.25 00:32 Caltheglitch Caltheglitch-DLS, dropped this song first time I pitch my voice hope y’all enjoy
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2021.10.25 00:32 mhaeric24327 Trade,earn and grow with HydraSwap
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2021.10.25 00:32 ZoolShop Cristiano Ronaldo sends message to Manchester United fans with Liverpool defeat verdict
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2021.10.25 00:32 Altruistic-Evening36 Share your favorite book ever!
2021.10.25 00:32 KyleHamptoninn Msc cruises in America
What’s the class of people on the ship generally middle or is there a bunch of lower class? The buffet reviews etc on YouTube are making me want to pay double and do carnival or ncl
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2021.10.25 00:32 Fearless-Fig8395 Solid works discover server?
2021.10.25 00:32 Selfboy24 Love how they are tricking us into watching weekly episode releases that are essentially just the same as the movie... I figured there would be more added scenes 👌👈
2021.10.25 00:32 tinytexasclover Fall/Halloween Listens
I just finished The Girl Who Lived by Christopher Greyson, and I realized that while I can’t handle horror, suspense is the perfect fall/halloween listen I have been looking for.
Do you have any good recommendations? As I mentioned, I am a big baby when it comes to horror (Insidious made me cry, I can’t), so I am looking for more of a mystery, suspense, or even just set somewhere very Fall.
I have been stuck in my apartment for months due to a small health issue so any recommendations will be considered and GREATLY appreciated!
(also I’m on mobile so hopefully this formatting is as clear as I think it is,
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2021.10.25 00:32 redrocketunicorn Shit post (pun intended)
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2021.10.25 00:32 unfunnycatgirl Idk i’m probably just in a weird mood but yea
basically a lot of my cousins are getting married now and even having kids and it’s amazing and i love that for them. but it’s going to change everything and the goofiness of some of them will fade. for example i have a cousin who would take my sister and out to cool spots and climb things and make time for us. but he just got married and is going to want a kid in the next 2 years and everything will change yk :/
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2021.10.25 00:32 thisdogtrips NI-
2021.10.25 00:32 neil23alpha1 Snek
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2021.10.25 00:32 Mu13GhostBusters Legendary trick shots part ;
2021.10.25 00:32 okplum Tank exploded today so I upgraded to a 20 gallon long.
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2021.10.25 00:32 Darc_vexiS The Hatsan 135 QE - (Year One Review) - Part 1
2021.10.25 00:32 sampanbasu There goes my sleep schedule
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2021.10.25 00:32 -Cranktankerous- Should I (24M) Confront My Ex-Best Friend (21M) About Lying?
This is going to be a very long post.
I had two best friends, a couple who were each slightly younger than me by about three years. One was my best friend of over a decade (We'll call him Peter), and the other was his a girlfriend of about two years (We'll call her Lois) whom I was also very close to. He was my best friend, and she was my second-best friend. The three of us were as close as kin, and we spent most waking hours either with each other or talking to each other.
Peter's lifestyle is very lethargic, and his physique, his chosen activities, and his house reflect this. I'm not going to go into every nitty gritty detail, but it is a constant -- something that Lois has constantly taken issue with, and something he always blames on someone else. Despite these claims, his clothes bulged out through his bedroom door because he refused to do laundry to where it would no longer close. Plus, I had to jump over a stack of boxes full of his stuff to actually reach the toilet in the bathroom that he used for well over a month -- and even then the toilet was broken, and I had to physically pull the chain on the inside to get it to flush. He treats people with similar levels of attention and affection, and he is notoriously insecure.
Once, he and I had a disagreement about what to do with two hitchhikers -- two girls who had spent the evening at the same arcade as us. Lois and I had agreed that helping the two was the right thing to do, and it was just a quick five to ten minute drive to drop them off at their subdivision. Peter wanted us to leave on our own, but Lois and I volunteered to drive the two girls home. Peter not only forbade Lois from going, but called the both of us "naïve and stupid" to think contrary to him. I tried several times to get him to back down from using that kind of language but he instead doubled down. I was obviously irate at this, and explained to him that not only did he not control me, but that he also didn't get to make decisions for Lois either. He more or less called me a white knight afterwards for saying that.
After that heated disagreement, I decided to just let him have his way instead of making more of an issue than there already was. I didn't want to be alone with two strangers in my car, especially teenage girls, so I begrudgingly had them walk home. Lois explained to me later that he wasn't just insecure about the hitchhikers, but that this behavior happened whenever she was going to be alone with another man. Not only that, but he would often hold grudges against her for having differing opinions than her. She would actually complain to me quite often about that specifically, as well as similar events.
In other words, it wasn't about the hitchhikers -- it was that she was taking my side instead of his.
According to her, the way he treated Lois, other people, and his own bad habits ended up getting to her, to the point where she attempted to break up with him. This is not what he told me, however, when he told me what was happening. To that end, Peter and I went out to Waffle House three months ago so that Peter could vent to me, and for me to both console and give him some of my trademark advice. Over the past decade or so of friendship, I've been something of a de-facto mentotherapist to him given his relationship -- or lack thereof -- with his father. Whenever he would ever have a problem, I was always there to help him through it. Likewise, whenever I found myself in trouble, usually he (or in recent years either of them given how close Lois and I were) was there for me in the same way.
During our time at Waffle House, what he said was that she had Borderline Personality Disorder and was seeking therapy after she had been exploding at him in private. She would snap at him at the smallest thing, or sometimes not even know why she was upset. I had never even seen her more than mildly frustrated over my time of knowing her, which made this revelation a bit... mysterious to me. As far as I know from my experience with people with mental illnesses, they don't usually wait until private for their mental illness to show symptoms, especially over the course of two years. Regardless, it was possible that I had only seen her on "good days" and I treated it as the truth and consoled him about the breakup -- but I also followed that by telling him not to blame every relationship problem on her mental illness. I told him how she was under stress from college, and that he might have done things to irritate her even if they were small (like, for example, the fact that I only recently learned what the bathroom floor looked like due to Lois doing Peter's extensive laundry for him) that caused her to explode as well.
I looked up what BPD was after he went to the bathroom since I had all but forgotten what it was after my first year of college, and after the WaHo meetup made a note about what to do about it on my phone. Whenever things get complex, I tend to write notes about them on my phone to both give myself action steps, and to get the ideas out of my mind. This one in particular talks about Lois' BPD and action steps to keep both of them as my friends in case of a full-on breakup.
Fast-forward to a couple of months later, she tried breaking up with him again. This is when, basically out of the blue, he outright attacked me and told me to stay away from Lois. I told him that I wasn't going to do that, and that he didn't control who I (or Lois) spent time with. She was one of my best friends, and I wasn't going to toss her to the curb just because someone told me to. Peter then told me not to make a move on her in case they broke up, and I told him the same thing a second time. Best friend or not, he didn't own either of us -- and I told him as such. Besides, if something developed sometime in the future, then I wasn't going to say "no" just because he happened to date her for a bit.
He attacked me some more after I said this, and apparently told another friend of mine (We'll call him Brian) to give me the "bros before hoes" speech. I explained myself and my beliefs on the matter, leading Brian to back down, but Peter was still on a warpath. He accused me of trying to steal her away from him by always taking her side on things, and by refusing to back him up. He said that I was "really white knighty", and that I was being immature about the event.
I followed that up with a response that was a bit... incredulous? I'd been his best friend for a decade, including several breakups and overall bad decisions on his part. I had stuck with him through thick and thin, and to be totally honest, I was a bit ticked that he would even consider the possibility of me hurting him like that. I told him as much, and even gave him an excuse to basically say, "that came out wrong" and to back down from attacking me. He declined.
Somewhere in this, I sent Lois a message of support, basically stating that I was there if she wanted to talk about it. She and I got talking about how things were basically falling apart at that point, and I ended up telling her about what had happened thus far. She then tells me that she's glad that I'm still her friend, and explains that she believes that Peter was lying about her behind her back. I concur and tell her about how Peter told me that Lois had BPD. I didn't really know for sure whether or not Peter had told me the truth, but I had a hunch that he hadn't.
As it turned out, Lois didn't have BPD at all and was outright enraged that he would lie about her like that. We agreed to discuss it in the morning, and not to tell Peter that we were talking because, obviously, he was going to react poorly. She then took a screenshot of chat (thanks, Snapchat) and assumedly sent it to Peter where she then assumedly accused him of lying about her. This is when she went radio silent for about 10-15 minutes, then returned to call me a liar and a horrible person and that she no longer wants to be around me. I don't blame her for believing him, after all they'd been dating for more than two years, but I am immensely hurt that she didn't even ask me about whatever he said to confirm if it was true or not especially when she had reason to believe that he was a liar.
Peter then messages me and said that he was upset that I was talking to her despite him telling me not to, and that I was twisting his words to split the two of them up because he "never said anything about BPD". Whatever he said about me to Lois, I get the impression that it wasn't exactly kind nor accurate. It's not just her who doesn't want anything to do with me, either -- it's the entire friend group I called my family. I went from two best friends and an active friend group to a human island.
This wouldn't be the first time he's stretched the truth or outright lied when something didn't go his way. Normally it was over little things, like something on Minecraft or a disagreement at school, but they never got more than exaggerations. This was different. In fact, he almost definitely started a nasty rumor about me in hindsight in much the same way, with suddenly everyone in the friend group believing that I was basically only interested in having women around just to sleep with them and that friendship wasn't an option -- despite my virginity.
Why he started a rumor like that in the past is beyond me. Maybe he was insecure about me? I constantly dress nicely and smell nice, I work out consistently and often, I treat people with respect, I have high aspirations, and to that end I recently graduated with my Master's Degree. Peter does none of those things, and he has only a High School Diploma to his name. He's been immensely insecure around and about me specifically, and it has been a constant. In fact, he started a similar rumor around the group about another former member of the group who had a political disagreement with Peter -- whether it's true or not now remains a mystery.
Everything collapsed about two months ago, and though I've slowly gained new friends in a few places, I've begun to realize that I have proof to exonerate myself in the eyes of my old group. Remember that note that I wrote earlier? That note has a timestamp from the night of, or the day after that I went to Waffle House with Peter. As such, it explains not just the fact that he told me about how Lois had BPD, but factoids about Peter and Lois to keep in mind during the various steps that I had listed to keep them both as friends in case of a breakup. Unless Lois believes that I was such a mastermind that I wrote the note in advance with only a few passing remarks about BPD just in case I needed it to split them up in the future, it proves that Peter lied about her behind her back -- and by extension, that I was telling the truth all along.
I can't exactly send the evidence to her as a text message, though. Not only would he just lie again and say, "Oh he's just trying to split us apart again" without me there to defend it, but it would also stand to reason that she likely has me blocked on all platforms as evidenced by the fact that she removed me as a friend on both Snapchat and Instagram. In other words, it's in person or nothing -- something that I have offered to do, which Peter has shut down. As a brief explanation of that, he tried to get my brother's help with some work a bit ago, playing dumb. When he found out that my brother knew what happened by me offering to meet with both of them to resolve this issue, he basically sent me a slew of messages calling me immature and a whole bunch of other messages I'm never gonna give him the satisfaction of reading.
Now, I'm not going to say that I don't have any attraction to Lois at all, as that would be a lie. If I'm going to be totally honest, I am attracted to her -- she's a frankly amazing woman. But my honesty, my loyalty, and my affections for her are not mutually exclusive. They can all be true -- and they are. I suppose the loyalty is a bit less so now that he threw me under the bus to save his dying relationship. Ha.
Right now, I want to clear my name and stop some of the best friends that I've ever known from thinking that I'm some kind of devious animal. But that truth is a bomb that could and would shatter this friend group, as Peter is the lynchpin of the whole thing. He's the guy who introduced everyone to each other, and even his apartment is the local hangout for the boys. I want my friends to like me again, and I care about Lois a lot -- but whether my emotions are clouding my judgement, however, is another thing entirely.
I have this proof, and I am going to the same event that the whole friend group is going to this weekend. I can and most likely will have an opportunity to present my evidence to them in person, and catch him in his lie publicly. I may very well have that chance -- but should I take it?
If I do, I'd just become the person that they say that I am. If I took that step, there would be no going back. I would be exonerating myself, yes, but then I'd just be asking an entire group of people to choose between us -- to which they would probably answer "neither". My return wouldn't exactly be one with heroic boleros and cheering crowds; not like that, at least. I may be truthful, but I'm not stupid enough to think that I can just show up, step back in, and have everything go back to normal. I may end up losing the group a second time -- this time, for everyone.
What should I do? I am not free of sin in this circumstance, but I should not be made a pariah for a crime that I did not commit. But if I have justice, then all I'd be doing is breaking apart friends who have known each other for close to a decade. Justice would be mine, but at what cost?
tl;dr: My best friend of over a decade lied about his girlfriend to me in order to push aside his wrongdoings in the relationship. When I brought it up with her after she expressed concerns to me, he called me a liar and pinned everything on me -- telling everyone that I was jealous and trying to steal his girlfriend. I am an outcast now, but I have the evidence to prove my innocence. But if I reveal it, then I'll just be the monster that they all think that I am. What should I do?
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2021.10.25 00:32 RevolutionaryNews414 a lil break from the madness @mohsinzaman
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2021.10.25 00:32 NewAcctCuzIWasDoxxed Based on his contract, how much money (if any) did David Bakhtiari lose from being on the PUP for the first 7 weeks?
Just curious as he signed a new contract in Nov 2020 and I know sometimes these contracts are not fully guaranteed and based on total playtime / roster activity.
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2021.10.25 00:32 Danny2517 Who wins this trade in PPR?
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2021.10.25 00:32 FlatwormKooky7866 Suggest me a name for Mx9
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